..:: 49 All Purpose Tricks About Oral Sex ::..

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We all love oral sex, but what’s the best position to get it? While surfing online I came across a great tip for men, and I added a few other tips for women who might want to get better at their craft as well.

Some positions are better than others for getting easy (and precise) access to her body. Lay your lady on her back with her legs spread apart and her knees slightly bent. Lie on your stomach between her legs and place both your arms under her legs (this leaves your hands free). Sitting in the same position also works well, but you can put both your hands under her butt, holding her up and bringing her closer to you. Another good option is to have her lie back on the bed with her butt near the edge, her feet resting on the edge of the bed, and you kneel in front of her. These are not the only options, but they are good for starters.

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..:: 3 Ways To Be The Ultimate Sex Partner ::..

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We all want to find the greatest lover we can. many of us even want to be the best lover to our boo that we go through great lengths to do so, but as I said numerous times before you don’t have to be porn star or even do porn star things to be the best.

Moral Oral – Oral might be the greatest part of sex after the orgasm. When your lover is simply willing to go down, it can make the sex a lot better. Their willingness to do it whenever, or whereever goes a long way in a person’s mental. Whether on the pier on South Street Seaport or an eating session at the movies head is always great. The fact that your lover enjoys it, and the way they flick their tongue on that special part… I’m sure it brings back memories. I eat until I burp.

Cleanliness Is Next To Godliness – We may not admit it, but we are all shallow in our own way. So when our lover is clean, and well put together it makes the love making that much better. Trimmed pubic hair, manicured nails or a great cologne does something to build our sexual attraction.

Brand Spanking New – I call myself the sexual intellectual for the fact that I’m always willing to learn new things. I’m sure we’ve all said or have met someone who said they are willing to try new things. That’s a key part of all sexual relationships, our partners willingness to try something new. It might not be new to you, but it might be new to them. I learned a lot about eating because of different request my women have asked me to do. I’m never afraid to shout out a few orders during sex. Your lover might not be aware that doing something different can make the sex better unless you tell them.

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..:: Five Fantastic Fall Date Ideas ::..

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Summer is almost over and soon everyone will want to be boo’d on for the chilling night and cold days. While right now I’m single, one thing I know how to do is treat a lady. So no jump off talk today. Today we discuss some fantastic fall date ideas.

Play Dress Up: One of the fun things about this time of year is that the stores start to stock halloween costumes. Why not go to the store and pick up an outfit. Surely some of you ladies want to make love to a fireman and I know every man wants to sleep with a sexy school teacher or school girl. Why not make it happen? Make it even more fun and don’t get naked, leave the costumes on and have fun. It’s even better if you do this before October 31st.

Try a P & P: What’s a P & P you might ask? Well that’s when you go to see a play and the other P well that’s not that simple (after is over you get laid), but be spontaneous, and do it outside. There is nothign like the cool evening air on your bare skin. Find a spot, maybe take a walk through a park w/ red and orange leaves and…

Plan To Stay In: There is no rule that says you have to go out to go on a date. Why not plan a day lounging around the house. Now you can’t just not do anything. Actually plan things to do, movies, games, sex or anything your heart desires. Adding the element of stripping to your bedroom games can be fun. Strip Monopoly. You landed on my property now strip!

XXXTreme Home Makeover: Go down to your local hardware store and pick up some paint, a new sink or some other household item and spend the day putting something together. It could be as big as a complete new room or as little as painting a wall. The time you share together, working together can be a wonderful experience and you can always remember the amazing time you shared, eating skittles, next to a bucket of paint.

Have a ConverSHAVEtion: Maybe my Sexual Intellectualism is on another level, but I’ve always wanted to shave my woman’s lady parts. Most women won’t trust a man with a razor next to her privates, and I know I damn sure won’t leave a woman around me w/ anything sharp, but there is no rule against having her watch while I trim the area her mouth will be after I’m done. She should do the same and we can have a wonderful conversation while we partake in some body maintenance.

WHAT ARE SOME OTHER FUN AND EXCITING IDEAS FOR A DATE? HAVE YOU GONE ON ANY DATES LIKE THIS?

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..:: 49 All Purpose Tricks About Oral Sex ::..

jahairamaravilla

We all love oral sex, but what’s the best position to get it? While surfing online I came across a great tip for men, and I added a few other tips for women who might want to get better at their craft as well.

Some positions are better than others for getting easy (and precise) access to her body. Lay your lady on her back with her legs spread apart and her knees slightly bent. Lie on your stomach between her legs and place both your arms under her legs (this leaves your hands free). Sitting in the same position also works well, but you can put both your hands under her butt, holding her up and bringing her closer to you. Another good option is to have her lie back on the bed with her butt near the edge, her feet resting on the edge of the bed, and you kneel in front of her. These are not the only options, but they are good for starters.

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What makes or breaks the wifey?

I really needed a reason to use that song. LOL I love love love me some Pharrell and by default in this song, I love Usher.

This is going to be part of a multi-post discussion of some ideas. I’d love to get you guy’s feedback to make future posts on this topic more conducive to what you all want to talk about.

So as humans, we all have the desire to meet someone we’re attracted to, get to know them, marry, and mate. That can be in any order obviously. While this seems like an easy enough concept, it has proven itself to be quite difficult actually. Especially in this day and age. It seems the economy isn’t the only thing in a recession. What I want to talk about however is the role sex plays in relationships. Specifically for this post I want to talk about the role a woman’s sexuality plays into relationships.

This is partially inspired by the Jump Off vs. Friends with Benefits conversation had over at Single Black Male, but really it’s a thought that I’ve seen many women secretly whisper about. It seems that to a certain extent black women are experiencing our own sexual revolution. Feminism to a certain extent left us in the dust, so we’re just now learning to love and be okay with our sensuality. Or we really? I watch Sex and The City, and I marvel at how these women were sexual, and open about their sexuality. They did things and spoke about things in a way that just made it seem normal and quite alright. Conversations among black women don’t go that way without anyone observing considering them “Whorish”. Of course, we talk to our girlfriends about our sexual escapades but the feeling is definitely different. Here’s why: Our sexual experiences are different. This is especially true for the Professional Black Woman.

I’ve had many conversations with men about how they want a lady in the streets but a freak in the bed. We’ve all heard that saying. To them, Wifey will be the pillar of the community, independent, yet secure enough to let the man be the man, and able to make his toes curl at night. Wonderful. That sounds great to me. So then tell me why have I observed this: A man meets a wonderfule woman. She’s a PBW, educated, socially aware, sweet, the kind of girl you bring home to mom, and make her the mother of your children. They date, enjoy great conversations, and then it’s time to get the business done. First go around is great. She handled hers and he showed out well for the match. All is well, phase two of the relationship can continue. Phase two being After Sex (A.S). You see there’s Before Sex (B.S.) and after. Y’all know there’s a difference. So the two are now being sexual. This woman who is wifey material is everything he could have asked for. This is where things get tricky. This same woman is also very sexual. She loves sex and is open about her likes and dislikes. It’s not something that she has to constantly talk about, or flaunt, but she brings it to his attention some of the things she’s interested in. The man realizes that she’s not virginal, and instantly her wifey status is diminished. I’m not talking about super freaky crazy, swinger swapping stuff and animals. Just on some Common’s “Go” type stuff.

So why does this happen? I’ve heard plenty of men claim they want a L.I.T.S. but a F.I.T.B yet, turn around and say in the same breath that they want their wives to be damn near virginal. I’ve also seen men confuse a woman who is well versed in the bedroom with a woman who has been around the block. The man is still intrigued, but would prefer her to be the Jump Off as opposed to Wifey now. He wants to learn from her, but not learn with her.

On the flip side, I’ve spoken to some of my friends who would love a sexually adventurous woman. However, they still admitted they would seriously question how she came to learn what she did, and why she was open to do certain other acts. However, I feel like this is all irrelevant. There’s a difference between the girl that you know all of your friends and the entire eastern seaboard have ran through, and the girl who may have had that one guy who showed her the ropes. At the end of the day if she’s in good health how much does it matter? If she was wifey to you before, the fact that she may know her way around the bed better than you shouldn’t change that.

So is it male ego? Pride? Should we black women find the happy medium between just laying there and absolutely letting loose? Should we stop reading Zane books and learn how to keep it basic? Or should we be able to explore our sexuality, and have a partner who supports us and explores with us? Are Will and Jada on to something? If you found out that Michelle Obama was a real freaky deek would you take the pedestal from under her? I understand also that what some define as freaky others define as kinky, what some define as kinky, others define as Fetish. Let’s just seek to define the common ground.

I open it up to you guys. I want to later explore more of the Professional Black Woman and her sexuality, as well as the stereotype of the black woman as the Jezebel when other races of women hold no such “title” over their heads. We’ll see how this conversation goes first. 🙂

JG* (no this post is not about me). LOL

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What makes or breaks the wifey?

I really needed a reason to use that song. LOL I love love love me some Pharrell and by default in this song, I love Usher.

This is going to be part of a multi-post discussion of some ideas. I’d love to get you guy’s feedback to make future posts on this topic more conducive to what you all want to talk about.

So as humans, we all have the desire to meet someone we’re attracted to, get to know them, marry, and mate. That can be in any order obviously. While this seems like an easy enough concept, it has proven itself to be quite difficult actually. Especially in this day and age. It seems the economy isn’t the only thing in a recession. What I want to talk about however is the role sex plays in relationships. Specifically for this post I want to talk about the role a woman’s sexuality plays into relationships.

This is partially inspired by the Jump Off vs. Friends with Benefits conversation had over at Single Black Male, but really it’s a thought that I’ve seen many women secretly whisper about. It seems that to a certain extent black women are experiencing our own sexual revolution. Feminism to a certain extent left us in the dust, so we’re just now learning to love and be okay with our sensuality. Or we really? I watch Sex and The City, and I marvel at how these women were sexual, and open about their sexuality. They did things and spoke about things in a way that just made it seem normal and quite alright. Conversations among black women don’t go that way without anyone observing considering them “Whorish”. Of course, we talk to our girlfriends about our sexual escapades but the feeling is definitely different. Here’s why: Our sexual experiences are different. This is especially true for the Professional Black Woman.

I’ve had many conversations with men about how they want a lady in the streets but a freak in the bed. We’ve all heard that saying. To them, Wifey will be the pillar of the community, independent, yet secure enough to let the man be the man, and able to make his toes curl at night. Wonderful. That sounds great to me. So then tell me why have I observed this: A man meets a wonderfule woman. She’s a PBW, educated, socially aware, sweet, the kind of girl you bring home to mom, and make her the mother of your children. They date, enjoy great conversations, and then it’s time to get the business done. First go around is great. She handled hers and he showed out well for the match. All is well, phase two of the relationship can continue. Phase two being After Sex (A.S). You see there’s Before Sex (B.S.) and after. Y’all know there’s a difference. So the two are now being sexual. This woman who is wifey material is everything he could have asked for. This is where things get tricky. This same woman is also very sexual. She loves sex and is open about her likes and dislikes. It’s not something that she has to constantly talk about, or flaunt, but she brings it to his attention some of the things she’s interested in. The man realizes that she’s not virginal, and instantly her wifey status is diminished. I’m not talking about super freaky crazy, swinger swapping stuff and animals. Just on some Common’s “Go” type stuff.

So why does this happen? I’ve heard plenty of men claim they want a L.I.T.S. but a F.I.T.B yet, turn around and say in the same breath that they want their wives to be damn near virginal. I’ve also seen men confuse a woman who is well versed in the bedroom with a woman who has been around the block. The man is still intrigued, but would prefer her to be the Jump Off as opposed to Wifey now. He wants to learn from her, but not learn with her.

On the flip side, I’ve spoken to some of my friends who would love a sexually adventurous woman. However, they still admitted they would seriously question how she came to learn what she did, and why she was open to do certain other acts. However, I feel like this is all irrelevant. There’s a difference between the girl that you know all of your friends and the entire eastern seaboard have ran through, and the girl who may have had that one guy who showed her the ropes. At the end of the day if she’s in good health how much does it matter? If she was wifey to you before, the fact that she may know her way around the bed better than you shouldn’t change that.

So is it male ego? Pride? Should we black women find the happy medium between just laying there and absolutely letting loose? Should we stop reading Zane books and learn how to keep it basic? Or should we be able to explore our sexuality, and have a partner who supports us and explores with us? Are Will and Jada on to something? If you found out that Michelle Obama was a real freaky deek would you take the pedestal from under her? I understand also that what some define as freaky others define as kinky, what some define as kinky, others define as Fetish. Let’s just seek to define the common ground.

I open it up to you guys. I want to later explore more of the Professional Black Woman and her sexuality, as well as the stereotype of the black woman as the Jezebel when other races of women hold no such “title” over their heads. We’ll see how this conversation goes first. 🙂

JG* (no this post is not about me). LOL

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