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We all play the game, whether we know it or not. We might not know what the game is, or exactly how to play it, but it gets played… By men, women, boys and girls of all ages. From the school boy hitting on the girl he likes, to the grown woman who won’t call back in the 15 minutes she says she will but rather in a few hours to keep the guy guess. My point is, a lot of women want to know how to keep a guy from cheating and how to lock down a good man. Well its really simple, but it might be hard to actually accomplish.
Men don’t want much. Sure we claim to want the chick with the nicest body, longest hair, prettiest eyes and all that, but at the end of the day none of that is important. It’s not important because great looks fade over time. The real beauty is on the inside. I’ve written blogs on things to do to keep a man from cheating, things to keep the bedroom hot, and many more. Still despite all of that none of those things are important. Here is what is:
Be Supportive:
A lot of women have no idea what it takes to actually support a man. We don’t need your money, but why must a man pay for every thing? Why can’t she offer to help me out with my idea and make it better. Without criticizing a man and making him feel like he’s not smart? A woman should support a man and help make him better, but in today’s world our women will bring a man down faster than Katrina swallowed New Orleans. Support can from in a lot of different forms, you just gotta ask yourself are you truly supporting the one you love?
Be Understanding:
Few things are important to a man. We are simple creatures at heart. We care about sports, news and maybe our favorite television shows. Why can’t we watch the game on the big screen and you watch ANTM on the small tv? Even if it’s just for this one night. Why must a man explain the game to a female who has no real interest in it. A major problem when it comes to relationship is because we don’t bend for our lovers. Men and women. If we take a few moments to try to understand why something is important to our mate. Everything can be better.
Listen to me:
I hear everything that is said to me, but I don’t listen as much as I should. That is unless I actually want to listen. As humans we only remember a small percentage of what we hear, see, smell and touch, but that doesn’t mean we shouldn’t pay attention. Sometimes I just need an ear. An ear that won’t judge me, clown me or even give me any advice.
Be Available:
In the craziest of it all, sometime it is necessary to stop what we are doing and be there. I’ve been in plenty relationships where I was there for them, but she wasn’t there for me. Sometimes when it all gets too much to hold in we need a release then and there. Sure it’s good to not be available sometime, but other times you gotta make time, to deal with someone else’s issues. Men need someone who is able to enjoy their company when they want it.
Honesty:
Another key issue we face in relationships is that we aren’t honest with one another. Sure we may not lie about things, but do we always say what we feel in a constructive way? Or do we hold it in, keep it to ourselves and allow someone to head on a path of failure and destruction?
There are tons of nicks and nacks to love and live we just need to figure them out. We must remember that when it comes to love we need to take more time to think about the one we are involved with.
I know a lot of women will say they did this and more and still got cheated on. But at the end of the day what might work for one, will not work for another and if you feel like you couldn’t have done better you’re probably wrong. And if you feel like you did your all and you still got cheated on… It’s not you it’s him.
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